If we haven't used it in four months do we really need it?

This evening we got our shipment from the US delivered. The school provided for up to three cubic meters per teacher to be shipped and we used about four of our six. As I mentioned in a previous post, deciding what to keep, give away, store, or ship was a major and long process. We ended up giving away a large majority of our belongings, whether to friends or to charity. I'm also sorry to say a lot of it ended up in the trash. Well, we tried, and it honestly feels pretty good to be free of that much stuff.

But we were a little nervous about getting our shipment today. We remembered that we shipped kitchen equipment and spices, which we have been noticing the lack of quite a bit. And we've also missed having books in the house. We are continually rereading or using for reference a number of our favorite books. We shipped a few boxes of these, as well as some favorite DVDs (CDs were all stored on a portable hard-drive). But we couldn't remember everything we put in the boxes, and were not sure it would all fit in our three-bedroom apartment. We've been feeling like, for the most part, the apartment fits our needs, but wondered if getting all our things from the US would make it feel packed.

Well, so far, so good. I thankfully shipped some storage shelves and bins for the kitchen, which fit nicely in the cupboards. With the bookshelf'/cupboard we moved from John's room serving as extra space for our baking supplies, the kitchen is entirely put away. We will do some minor readjustments, but it looks like it will fit, and look good to boot. And we actually have a lot of empty space in our hall closet. We thought it would be packed, but it has plenty of room for whatever else we decide to aquire here. We need more bookshelves, but not much more, the kids need some help organizing the personal items they shipped so they aren't in a pile on the bottom of their wardrobes, but other than that, it's looking pretty good. Oh, and we shipped some framed art prints as well, so it's starting to look more like the home we are used to.

The only frustrating thing is, we are missing some things we thought we shipped. Thinking back, we're pretty sure we neglected to put them in the stack for the movers, but we're not entirely certain. The bad thing is, it is a small box of our favorite Christmas decorations we wanted to have here, some irreplacable ceramics that Allyne made, and our picture of the temple. So it's things we really wanted, and would feel badly if they were lost forever. We're hoping Don's family will be able to tell us if they are back in Arizona, but it might not be possible to find out until we go back next summer.

I remember someone saying once, that if you haven't used something in a long time, you don't really need it, and most of this stuff hasn't been seen by us since we moved out of our house four months ago. That idea may fit a lot of situations, but after moving across the world, giving up almost all our things, I can tell you that having a some familiar items around the house again is a comforting thing. A few books and pictures, equipment to bake cookes and pizza, now it's really feeling like home.